Building Great Sales and Relationships - What do Songlines in the Australian Outback have to do with Strategic Sales?
Posted on February 4th, 2009Romance with Australia
Don’t ask me why. I don’t know. In many ways, I have a romance with Australia in the same way I have a romance with Texas. There are similarities… the ranching background, the hard scrabble land, the outsized attitudes and good nature. I know, me, Hugh Jackman and Baz Lurhmann.
A long time ago I read a beautifully written book by Bruce Chatwin. He spent a lot of time with a community of Aboriginals and learned of the passing of their elders’ custom and wisdom. These are the people who invented the “walkabout”.
Navigating without maps
There were no maps. There was a solid belief that they could sing in a rhythm with the environment. The young would learn chants for their area… “walk this way, turn toward the sun at the rock that looks like a fox” and so on.
The magical thing was that when they walked for 30 or 40 days, they found their way back. As they walked, and ventured into new turf, somehow they picked up the rhythm of the land and their chants revealed the paths and navigated for them.
Ok, Steve, you’ve lost it now
What does this have to do with strategic sales and relationship building?
A relationship has to be navigated. It’s an analytical and an intuitive process. It is dynamic. To keep in an engaged conversation, we need to be sharing stories that help guide our clients’ expectations and behavior, as well as giving us clues as to what they need. No singing necessary… think stories rather than songs, storylines rather than songlines.
Because really they are the same thing. Songlines are stories that are passed from person-to-person to give guidance and structure to an otherwise unknown route. In business we can tell stories to our clients that can evoke trust and understanding, guide interactions and make a stepping path into the future. Narrative is a powerful way that humans understand each other. If you can tell a relevant story of your business to a client, there is a much higher likelihood they will recognize your worth and trust you than if you just promise them value and service. It also gives them a path as to how to interact effectively with you.
Here are some questions you can ask yourself to see if your organization is actively creating “storylines” that lead you and clients forward:
1. Do you tell stories to new and potential clients that illustrate a specific, concrete experience with a client who got value and results from your service?
2. Do you establish a long arc for the storyline so you can set a strategic frame for each episode?
3. How do you continue to build that story from specific stories and from more abstract value and advisory situations?
Where are your relationships going?

